Teenagers don't end their teenage years at 19 anymore.
Society doesn't want them to.
Mom's and dad's don't want them to ---- 'oh, my poor baby can't find a job; oh my baby needs to have fun one last time, oh my baby's growing up, etc)
STFU, you dumb ass parents!!
They NEED to grow up and WANT to grow up, but YOU won't let them.
STOP giving them money!! STOP spoiling them!! (There's a difference between loving and spoiling)
STOP enabling them!!
YOU are what's wrong with this world. They should have had a job at 16 or 17, you co-dependent whiny ass, who's in turn, turning your child into a co-dependent whiny ass!
Make everything easy for your kid, so they'll NEVER understand this world is cruel and difficult.
Are you proud of your entitled twenty something year old teenagers? Your kids keep playing you over and over again expecting your "charity" and "kindness". There's only one fool being played, in that game!
And there are those of us who look at you with pity!!