A while ago, on twitter, I went on a tiny bitch rant about people not having pictures..... including themselves and the things they do, etc., and why I won't spend a lot of time on those people.
I understand, some of you don't want to put yourselves out there in "social network land", but don't expect much, FROM ME.
I have trust issues, I'm proud of it!!! I think everyone is fake.... unless PROVEN otherwise.
In my book, pictures of dogs, flowers and their constant "FOOD PORN" don't cut it. I protect myself THAT way. Yes, people can put fake families up, but you NEED common sense along with your major "stalking" skills. (Remember, stalker is WAY better than creeper). You need to investigate people to an extent.
Remember though, it's only social networking, so in a way... I DON'T CARE IF YOU ARE FAKE, as long as you're cool, low key, funny and don't waste my time too much.
So, on to a certain "WICKED WITCH" CATFISH situation.....
People should be ashamed of themselves for not thinking BY themselves.... You have YOUR OWN brain.
You get a message from ANYONE saying something bad about someone else and you believe it without trusting yourself enough or your own instincts? (This also goes for bf/gf break-ups!!). You get told to "unfollow", "de-friend" or "block" another person and you do it?
WEAK MINDED comes to my mind!!!
You don't trust yourself enough that you can't say "NO" to a supposedly influential, scary, evil person???
Are you so afraid of what they may do to you??? You assume they're popular so you go along with them to be popular too??? You take "sides" and go along with the crowd that bullies and says evil, awful things about and to other people???
Even the people who think they're awesome are a pile of shyt for believing f*cked up shyt.
Pure and simple weakness.
This kind of douchebaggery shows me the weakness in people. I have NO RESPECT for people showing their own stupidity so easily.
You'd rather believe shyt than to sit, think and use your own mind, opinions, beliefs and thoughts... you are weak.
You need to grow up and listen to your instincts -- use the wisdom that life gives you.
And guys...... thinking us women start up this drama???? You're falling for this shyt as much as the "catfish friends". Falling for a pretty face, wanting some tit and twat shots??? Come on!
These "catfish" people don't go away either. They just start up as a different personality and get some more people in on their bullying games. Live and learn and don't get so involved with people unless you do some homework or KNOW they're real!
... get to know your peeps & stick with your peeps ...
Let others in your personal space, at a slow pace.
One facial picture and 50 dog pictures do not make a real person, according to me.
I don't trust anyone, so yes, I'm gonna stalk you if I'm gonna even spend 5 minutes talking to you. If you're not up to par with me, that includes talking shyt ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE, I will not waste more than a couple minutes with you. I just can't! My time, my sanity, my drama-free life, is worth MUCH MORE THAN SPEAKING TO A FAKE PERSON, or someone I THINK is fake!!!
In this particular situation, I was quiet, along with hundreds of other people, just watching and waiting for an inevitable, huge bomb to go off!! What a great experiment. I hope y'all use it that way!!
If you're sharing information with a person, you better do your homework or do some "SKYPE" work!!
AND BE NICE TO PEOPLE