~ The Daily Bitch ~
At some point and time, EVERY teenager thinks their problems and life's difficulties are so far above all the problems in the universe.
Your poor life, your damn parents, school sucks, homework sucks, your curfew sucks, no car, no money, you can't do anything, etc.
It doesn't get better WHEN YOU GET OLDER!
If you're older and you STILL think this way about your adult dilemmas,
you better learn now, before you damage yourself and others with wasted negative energy.
EVERYONE HAS PROBLEMS and yours are NOT bigger than the general population, so DON'T GET IT TWISTED.
If you don't stomp this attitude out, you will always believe it and continue to think you are mightier than you really are, while normal people pity your sorry ass noble attitude.
Your problems are bigger, so everyone should bow down to you.
Your problems are bigger, so you feel entitled.
Your problems are bigger, so you need help.
Your problems are bigger, so you are extraordinary.
Your problems are bigger, so you need more attention.
.....AND..... you keep thinking it, therefore your aura keeps exuding it, therefore you keep saying it out loud. (Reminder... you don't need to tell EVERYONE EVERY bad little thing. We've been there! We get life is excruciatingly unpleasant at times BECAUSE WE ARE LIVING IT LIKE YOU!)
Stop being proud of your problems and bragging about them.
We don't care about your CONSTANT problems because ours
............ ARE as big as yours!!
Everyone goes through bad times.
Everyone makes mistakes
Everyone has challenges
Everyone makes choices they have to live with
Everyone has consequences associated with the choices they made
Everyone needs to learn the difficult way
Everyone has a challenging, demanding, painful life
Everyone gets OVER it
HOWEVER . . . not
Everyone speaks about it . . . . .
There have been trillions of people who have been to school, had homework, had jobs, lost jobs, been married, been divorced, been pregnant, had children, had too many bills ------ YOU ARE NOT SPECIAL, so quit constantly whining about all YOUR crap and thinking it's more important than life itself.
You NEED to get over your constant feeling of your 'almighty problematic attitude'.
Use your energy in a positive way i.e. how great your life is and what you have, rather than the negative, 'my life is a holy hell pit'.
You ARE what you think!
You ARE positively powerful
You WILL conquer and go on
You WILL succeed
YOUR LIFE CHANGES minute by minute, and has seasons of harsh reality - - - ACCEPT THAT FACT, quit comparing your problems with other people and MOVE ALONG!
We have ALL been there, so quit discounting all other humans in life - past, present and future - because YOU think you are SO extraordinary.
(which you are but we don't need constant reminding)
Remember - - - I say this because I love you!
~ The Daily Bitch ~
You know what I HATE????
Girlfriends of baby daddies.... acting like mommies to HIS kids....
WHO THE F DO YOU THINK YOU ARE????
THEN.... to make matters worse .... you slam pictures all over social networks showing how great (desperate) your relationship is and the low self-esteem you have seeping from your poor pitiful soul.
Trying to prove to baby mama, or rather, to yourself, that YOU matter and THEY don't.
When, in fact .......... YOU don't!
You will never be THEIR mommy, so quit being so dramatic with your 'imaginary' role, just to brag or show someone else that you have WHAT THEY WANT!
Everyone sees your sickness and your childishness . . .
Keep your love and your life to yourself, because hurting people ON PURPOSE, is the most SICKEST and the most PSYCHOTIC thing you can do!
Worry about your own self - - - - - keep your shyt in your own house when others are involved.
That's the price you pay when you are with a man + children!
If you break this rule - KARMA WILL BE YOURS!
Being mature = keeping the drama under your roof, enjoying your life and knowing deep inside your soul that you're doing the right thing AND being a good role model.
Bragging about having someone else's child when they do not
....... IS DISGUSTING AND MAKES YOU LOOK WEAK AND INSIGNIFICANT .......
~ THE DAILY BITCH ~
There is this thing called the internet . . . .
It will help you with EVERY single problem you encounter in life.
It provides many many many answers to your problems - you just need the common sense to put all the negative and positive information together and use it to your advantage.
This information is 99% better than any doctor, lawyer, cop, friend, mother, father, preacher or teacher!
You can have hundreds of facts about ANY subject, in seconds.
It's free and if used correctly, it doesn't lie and doesn't judge you.
If you choose not to use the smartest tool on earth, you are ignorant . . . . .
REMEMBER . . . most people won't sincerely help you. And they generally don't care about you and don't REALLY listen to your worries or concerns.
HOWEVER . . . they will judge you and lie to you.
Sometimes on accident, because NO person is knowledgeable in ALL THINGS!!
In this informative, rotten, political world . . . no one can help you better than you can help yourself. If you don't help yourself, YOU ARE LAZY!
~ The Daily Bitch ~
Teenagers don't end their teenage years at 19 anymore.
Society doesn't want them to.
Mom's and dad's don't want them to ---- 'oh, my poor baby can't find a job; oh my baby needs to have fun one last time, oh my baby's growing up, etc)
STFU, you dumb ass parents!!
They NEED to grow up and WANT to grow up, but YOU won't let them.
STOP giving them money!! STOP spoiling them!! (There's a difference between loving and spoiling)
STOP enabling them!!
YOU are what's wrong with this world. They should have had a job at 16 or 17, you co-dependent whiny ass, who's in turn, turning your child into a co-dependent whiny ass!
Make everything easy for your kid, so they'll NEVER understand this world is cruel and difficult.
Are you proud of your entitled twenty something year old teenagers? Your kids keep playing you over and over again expecting your "charity" and "kindness". There's only one fool being played, in that game!
And there are those of us who look at you with pity!!
~ The Daily Bitch ~
Do you honestly listen to what Dr's say to you, when it pertains to your health??
Dr's don't even know you . . . Dr's don't care about you.
Just because a Doctor says it - doesn't mean it's true.
You need to do what's right for your family.
A Doctor tells you how to "take care" of your newborn/baby/child, PLEASE BE INFORMED BEFORE YOU BELIEVE whatever he/she tells you - shots, food, formula, medications, etc.
A Doctor wants to give you medication, PLEASE BE INFORMED BEFORE YOU INGEST.
A Doctor is not God, not all-knowing.
Go with your instincts, they are there for a reason.
People trusting their entire lives and family to a Doctor - - - actually disturb me. You should trust in YOURSELVES to do what's right for your loved ones!
A Doctor just wants you to shut up and hide your problems, NOT MAKE YOU BETTER.
In many cases, they only want you to come back for more!! They get PAID to see you, they get PAID to give you meds, they get PAID to say things to you, they get PAID to scare you.
Gather your information from the Dr, then go home and do your research. Are the side effects worth being rid of something, when you can rid yourself naturally of your original ailment with no side effects? One side effect leads to more meds, then those side effects lead to more meds.
Doctors don't tell you HOW to take care of yourself - you've got to do that for yourself, because in this life there really is no one to trust - other than yourself. You are ultimately the only one that can fix your family's health issues.
Ask knowledgeable friends, go on the internet to several sites and be informed about ALL situations and conditions you go through. Your kids, dogs, family, friends and you, can all benefit from your knowledge.
"Lack of appreciation of potential hazards of environment and food contaminants DRIVE UP HEALTH CARE COSTS"
99% of ailments can be reduced by clean eating and exercise.
Food is medicine, medicine is food!!!
~ The Daily Bitch ~
If people don’t take the advice you give….. Is it their fault?
Or ... should you just shut your mouth???
People often want to make mistakes themselves and do things THEIR way, which is most likely the EASY way.
People want results with no hard work. Unfortunately, the best results don't happen that way.
When honestly asking for advice, sometimes you need to let go & let other people who know more than you, help you.
You hate your job.... QUIT..... or QUIT COMPLAINING. People sympathize with you, but to feel sorry for you for months or years, is re-dick!
You get sunburned & look old, yet don't want to hear about the damage the sun will do to you, deal with it!
If you keep living an unhealthy lifestyle, you will get sick and have health problems. It's not difficult to understand. Reading up on your health issues, taking the proper advice and WORKING yourself to health is what's required. Take advice and live it.
When you keep complaining about how awful you feel, yet you do NOTHING about it, is a complete drag on people trying to help you.
You keep gaining weight, smoking, drinking and eating shyt food, expect your negative results. You don't try to help yourself or take the correct advice, you will NEVER feel better.
You keep exercising in your jeans, expect people to talk about the ridiculous-ness of your choices.
If someone is trying to help you with your OOOOOOMPA LOOOOOOMPA color of your skin and you don't listen, expect people to talk about the silly-ness of your choices.
If you leave the house in clothing not appropriate to your age or status and you don't listen to the people who love you, expect people to talk about the wrong-ness of your choices.
If you go to Wal-Mart in your pajamas and Crocs, expect people to talk about the undesirable-ness of your choices.
If you have a line where your make-up ends on your chin, expect to walk around all day like that, if you won't accept a little constructive criticism on how to apply make-up.
Of course, it's different, when taking advice from someone who doesn't know a thing about what they're talking about.
You will not get great gardening advice from a person who knows nothing about gardening.
A heavy person is NOT the correct information specialist on healthy eating.
A Doctor will NOT give you good advice on how to take care of your body naturally because he's getting PAID to give you medications that will HURT YOU AND KEEP YOU COMING BACK TO HIM.
Always Always consider the source you get advice from.
Remember this through life ..... take all the information from all your friends, the internet, from anywhere. Then have them roll around in your head like a mature person and do the difficult thing, which is usually the right thing.
Learn from things people try to help you with... Advice or helping, which is it... or does it really matter?
Or better yet, DON'T GIVE ADVICE. Don't help people out. Maybe those people need to learn for themselves and understand that sometimes, advice is better given to dogs, because they don't understand and listen just like some people.
Living in a world of 'NO ADVICE GIVEN' is pretty difficult though, when your friends are relying on you to give your two-cents worth.
If you don't say a word, they think you don't care or you're being a snob or bitch.
Life seriously cannot work that way. We help out and give advice to everyone we're around.
In reality, keeping quiet can sometimes do more harm in any kind of relationship than anything else.
If you're the advice "giver" and you know your shyt ... Remember, a weak person does not take criticism, advice or receive help from anyone. You will have to turn away from giving anything, if your words are continually unheard.
Remember, an AskHole is a person who constantly asks for advice yet always does the opposite of what you told them.
These are MY thoughts... what I say is my problem. You don't like it, go suck it! I do the Daily Bitch for a reason--- TO BITCH! DUH!
~RNR~ The Daily Bitch