~ Let Them Drown ~
~ The Daily Bitch ~
You know how people can suck you in with their stupid, incoherent, non-sensical words, trying to hurt people passive aggressively??
And really, in truth, they know NOTHING of what they speak.
So you sit back and watch them keep sitting in the dark, ruining chances and believing lies the inconsequential people in their small lives tell them.
It's a pity they will NEVER grow up to see and acknowledge the true beauty around them instead of being stuck in a time warp of someone else's life.
They keep drowning in their drama and lay stagnant... in only their pride, to keep them company »» Pride is a killer!
Let these people be, yet be loving because they know no better.
IF you are one of these people, remember.....
THERE ARE ALWAYS THREE SIDES TO A STORY >> the truth, the partial truth and the side you won't listen to.
Sometimes being a mature, emotionally healthy adult, means making a change and getting out of the sickness and drama. Sickness and drama become a vicious circle.
There ALWAYS comes a TIME to leave your childhood judgements and hate behind... and LIVE.....
Chances are, the side you won't listen to is probably the most emotionally healthy side and doesn't want to chance being caught in a cess pool drowning with the rest of you
»»» IT'S UNHEALTHY AND LIFE DOESN'T HAVE TIME FOR BULLSHYT «««
The hardest decisions are the right decisions.
Leave the enablers of your life and stand up for your emotional health.
Make amends with people, because nothing feels as good as knowing you received information FIRST HAND.
AND one day, you'll learn, people are human. We all make mistakes.
AND some people are evil, for their own agendas and low self-esteem.
Get it right, don't listen to people with their "own agendas", MAKE YOUR OWN DECISIONS about YOUR life and
..... MOVE ALONG ....
~ Girlfriends ACTING Like Mommies ~
~ The Daily Bitch ~
You know what I HATE????
Girlfriends of baby daddies.... acting like mommies to HIS kids....
WHO THE F DO YOU THINK YOU ARE????
THEN.... to make matters worse .... you slam pictures all over social networks showing how great (desperate) your relationship is and the low self-esteem you have seeping from your poor pitiful soul.
Trying to prove to baby mama, or rather, to yourself, that YOU matter and THEY don't.
When, in fact .......... YOU don't!
You will never be THEIR mommy, so quit being so dramatic with your 'imaginary' role, just to brag or show someone else that you have WHAT THEY WANT!
Everyone sees your sickness and your childishness . . .
Keep your love and your life to yourself, because hurting people ON PURPOSE, is the most SICKEST and the most PSYCHOTIC thing you can do!
Worry about your own self - - - - - keep your shyt in your own house when others are involved.
That's the price you pay when you are with a man + children!
If you break this rule - KARMA WILL BE YOURS!
Being mature = keeping the drama under your roof, enjoying your life and knowing deep inside your soul that you're doing the right thing AND being a good role model.
Bragging about having someone else's child when they do not
....... IS DISGUSTING AND MAKES YOU LOOK WEAK AND INSIGNIFICANT .......
~ The Daily Bitch ~
Teenagers don't end their teenage years at 19 anymore.
Society doesn't want them to.
Mom's and dad's don't want them to ---- 'oh, my poor baby can't find a job; oh my baby needs to have fun one last time, oh my baby's growing up, etc)
STFU, you dumb ass parents!!
They NEED to grow up and WANT to grow up, but YOU won't let them.
STOP giving them money!! STOP spoiling them!! (There's a difference between loving and spoiling)
STOP enabling them!!
YOU are what's wrong with this world. They should have had a job at 16 or 17, you co-dependent whiny ass, who's in turn, turning your child into a co-dependent whiny ass!
Make everything easy for your kid, so they'll NEVER understand this world is cruel and difficult.
Are you proud of your entitled twenty something year old teenagers? Your kids keep playing you over and over again expecting your "charity" and "kindness". There's only one fool being played, in that game!
And there are those of us who look at you with pity!!
~ The Daily Bitch ~
I believe MOST agression is a learned behavior!
Chances are, you know people with such issues....
if you leave your baby/child with a person who has anger/aggression issues, that you have personally seen and/or witnessed....
YOU NEED SERIOUS HELP!!!
YOUR SELF-ESTEEM sucks!!!
If you cannot realize your child is worth much more than you GOING ANYWHERE or DOING ANYTHING that you need to leave your precious child in the hands of an idiot ....... YOU MUST be stopped!
YOU have illogical thinking!
YOU don't deserve children!
yes.... I SAID IT!!!
~ The Daily Bitch ~
If your friends don't understand who you are, your dreams and the kind of person you are, after knowing you for years..... IT'S TIME TO LET GO.
Sometimes...... It's not worth holding onto something that gives you drama and grief EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!
Life is too short, to worry about others' freakish emotions about who you are and what you're doing.
Our lives are built on experiences with hundreds of people each day.
Our friends are supposed to make life a joy.
When they continue to give you grief and drama ABOUT YOUR LIFE...... IT'S TIME TO LET GO. Your paths are completely different.
DO NOT EVER ... let your friends leave you exhausted and depressed! Be who you are!
Get rid of the shyt that's holding you down - - - - ESPECIALLY THE PEOPLE.
Sometimes . . . . . 'Friend' is just another word for 'Hater'...
A while ago, on twitter, I went on a tiny bitch rant about people not having pictures..... including themselves and the things they do, etc., and why I won't spend a lot of time on those people.
I understand, some of you don't want to put yourselves out there in "social network land", but don't expect much, FROM ME.
I have trust issues, I'm proud of it!!! I think everyone is fake.... unless PROVEN otherwise.
In my book, pictures of dogs, flowers and their constant "FOOD PORN" don't cut it. I protect myself THAT way. Yes, people can put fake families up, but you NEED common sense along with your major "stalking" skills. (Remember, stalker is WAY better than creeper). You need to investigate people to an extent.
Remember though, it's only social networking, so in a way... I DON'T CARE IF YOU ARE FAKE, as long as you're cool, low key, funny and don't waste my time too much.
So, on to a certain "WICKED WITCH" CATFISH situation.....
People should be ashamed of themselves for not thinking BY themselves.... You have YOUR OWN brain.
You get a message from ANYONE saying something bad about someone else and you believe it without trusting yourself enough or your own instincts? (This also goes for bf/gf break-ups!!). You get told to "unfollow", "de-friend" or "block" another person and you do it?
WEAK MINDED comes to my mind!!!
You don't trust yourself enough that you can't say "NO" to a supposedly influential, scary, evil person???
Are you so afraid of what they may do to you??? You assume they're popular so you go along with them to be popular too??? You take "sides" and go along with the crowd that bullies and says evil, awful things about and to other people???
Even the people who think they're awesome are a pile of shyt for believing f*cked up shyt.
Pure and simple weakness.
This kind of douchebaggery shows me the weakness in people. I have NO RESPECT for people showing their own stupidity so easily.
You'd rather believe shyt than to sit, think and use your own mind, opinions, beliefs and thoughts... you are weak.
You need to grow up and listen to your instincts -- use the wisdom that life gives you.
And guys...... thinking us women start up this drama???? You're falling for this shyt as much as the "catfish friends". Falling for a pretty face, wanting some tit and twat shots??? Come on!
These "catfish" people don't go away either. They just start up as a different personality and get some more people in on their bullying games. Live and learn and don't get so involved with people unless you do some homework or KNOW they're real!
... get to know your peeps & stick with your peeps ...
Let others in your personal space, at a slow pace.
One facial picture and 50 dog pictures do not make a real person, according to me.
I don't trust anyone, so yes, I'm gonna stalk you if I'm gonna even spend 5 minutes talking to you. If you're not up to par with me, that includes talking shyt ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE, I will not waste more than a couple minutes with you. I just can't! My time, my sanity, my drama-free life, is worth MUCH MORE THAN SPEAKING TO A FAKE PERSON, or someone I THINK is fake!!!
In this particular situation, I was quiet, along with hundreds of other people, just watching and waiting for an inevitable, huge bomb to go off!! What a great experiment. I hope y'all use it that way!!
If you're sharing information with a person, you better do your homework or do some "SKYPE" work!!
AND BE NICE TO PEOPLE
Relationships & Kids ~ 7/16/12
This is MY take on dicks & bitches who involve their kids too early in a relationship with YOUR significant "flavor" of the month.
You are a complete tool - man or woman - if you constantly introduce your kids to your unstable relationships!
What goes around comes around - You're teaching your kids your disgusting prostitute habits.
Don't be surprised WHEN, not if, your kids turn out just like you -- unable to have reliable, happy, well-balanced, enduring relationships.
Oh, you think you're not hurting your kids emotions???
...... SELFISH MUCH...... ???
You know what a whiny, bitch-ass punk you become when YOUR merry-go-round relationships don't work out for you and how fucked up you get --- now imagine a child with emotions more immature than yours!
Promiscuous & unhealthy relationship traits begin with you as a parent and seeing you give your "friends" in-n-out privileges through your bedroom door, gives your child the right to think it's normal.
It's NOT normal, you pig!!
Have some restraint and patience. Believe in yourself enough to wait and see if things will work out. Have respect for yourself and tell your "flavor of the month", the reason for not meeting your kid(s). If they don't like it, then you know what they wanted to begin with.
Your kids emotional well-being is so much more important than their impatience --- OR YOURS!!
You want to be promiscuous & co-dependent --- do it without your kid knowing --- for at least 4 months.
Don't fool yourself, Cinderella - after the 4 months of a new affair - it is NOT a storybook romance. During that early period, everything IS wonderful, happy and beautiful. But if you can't wait until after that happy time is over to involve your child's immature, loving emotions, you're are THE ultimate douchebag/douchebagette.
And it shows the world what a tramp/man whore you are and what you actually think about your kids' well-being.
You had kids for a reason.... to show them REAL love, teach them right from wrong and give them a great start in life, so they become a wonderful person -- WITHOUT YOUR SHIT BLOCKING THEIR PATH.
Do yourself a loving favor.... spend YOUR quality time with YOUR kids. Not a loser you're only with for a 5-minute roller coaster ride during your child's itty bitty life.
Your co-dependency needs to take a back seat to your child's precious, young soul.
P.S......... These are my opinions, don't get all butt-hurt & defensive.... I'm discussing merry-go-round relationships... not long-term happy, rational relationships!!
As a side note.... FOR MOST OF YOU ... a RELATIONSHIP = 3 month hook-up, so let's all call it that.
A NORMAL RELATIONSHIP is actually a dependence, alliance, kinship - which 3 months does not make!
After your storybook romance of 3 months... the arguing, fighting and jealousy does not = a relationship!!
After a while, people laugh at you behind your back.... so quit your "I'm so in love" talk.
~RNR~ The Daily Bitch