~ The Daily Bitch ~
Here is an example, my friends, of how opinions are more important than the truth, to MOST people.......
-opinions involve feelings-
This relates to ANYTHING racial, discriminatory, social, personal, etc....
I'll use myself as the case in point .....
THIS is my opinion >>>> [NOT truth]
I love the Chargers.
The Chargers are cool.
I BELIEVE in the Chargers.
Yes, the Chargers Fuck UP once in a while, but I still trust in them to do better.
The Chargers can do no wrong, no harm, no foul.
The Chargers are a piece of me.
There are good parts to the Chargers and there are bad.
If I'm a normal human, I will stick with them till the end, even if they murder/kill/harm animals/people, sell/take drugs or ANYTHING ILLEGAL.
THIS is truth >>>> [NOT my opinion]
>>>> THE CHARGERS SUCK <<<<
FACT = TRUTH!
Because I am of strong moral character, I WILL, personally, not follow or stick up for any person in the limelight (or otherwise) that murders, maims, dis-respects and/or harms themselves or others without the proper evidence/facts that say otherwise. I believe their money should not equal prominence and should never be given respect BECAUSE of their "status". Which means, I am a big enough, tenacious person >>> I CAN and WILL change my opinions once truth/facts come into the picture!
~ THE DAILY BITCH ~
I'm happy! I don't give in to lies. I don't pretend ANYTHING.
I don't speak false words just to be with the "in" crowd or to please people or because I'm 'afraid of' someone.
That's what sticking up for yourself does. It gives you dignity and confidence.... to say the things you need to say and NOT to say the things you think people want to hear.
I bet bowing down to slacker, intimidating
leaders/friends/family makes you feel like a fucked up failure.......
I'm proud that I can keep my self-respect when dealing with all people. I don't kiss ass or fake my words.
It embarrasses me to be around others who do.
In fact, it disturbs me, when I see people kissing so much ass to the wrong people! Even saying things completely opposite from what they actually believe.
I'm sad for their low self-esteem.
You know the type ~~~ they completely turn into another person when certain people are around, JUST TO PLEASE THEM.
Ughhhhhhh, JUST STOP!
Really! Just STFU!
You feel bullied or terrified or anxious around certain members of the human race, DON'T TALK!
Sometimes just keeping out of the conversation and keeping yourself from saying lies just to please people, gives you more honor than any words ever could. It gives you loyalty to YOURSELF.
Don't embarrass yourself by turning into someone you're not. Have some self-respect and BE YOU, BE BEAUTIFUL! .....
~ The Daily Bitch ~
This is a very big truth in my life ......
I dislike being in shout outs or conversations with PEOPLE who are whiny, high-maintenance, jealous dicks and bitches!
Ugliness exists everywhere!!!
I choose not to be involved in any aspect of their selfish, hating attitudes ~~ IN ANY WAY WHATSOEVER!!
Most whiny bitches, hate for no other reason than their own lack of self-esteem, self-control and self-confidence.
..... DRAMA ..... WHO NEEDS IT?.... MOVE ALONG, whiny high-maintenance bitches .... enjoy your little world!
I'm old enough....... that I don't have to kiss the assess of dicks and chicks who desperately need it for their ego.
I don't HAVE to talk to them to feel validated.
I like and enjoy everyone, but you hate me because you're jealous of me?? Get a LIFE!
I will not acknowledge you after you disrespect me and your attitude does not hurt my feelings.......
just don't expect ANYTHING FROM ME!!.....
I'm not sadistic, I don't enjoy your contempt for yourself, because, in reality.... that's all it really is!
This was originally written in May 2012, but only left on the site for 3 hours because of LEGAL ISSUES........
I have been around courtrooms in many capacities - working inside a courthouse, working for a judge, working for attorneys & city attorneys, as a defendant and as a plaintiff.
The unethical treatment, from city, county, state & federal employees towards the common public, goes on between not only races, but mostly between social classes.
America's judicial system does NOT have a RACE ISSUE.... it's mostly a class issue and a prime example of the control issues which we are faced with, within our governments... on a city, county, state and federal level.
Let us explore some big, strong words ......
~ RACE ~ A group of people united or classified TOGETHER ON THE BASIS OF COMMON HISTORY, NATIONALITY OR GEOGRAPHIC DISTRIBUTION; Humans considered as a group
~ RACIST ~ A person with a prejudiced belief that one RACE IS SUPERIOR TO OTHERS
~ DISCRIMINATION ~ the unjust or prejudicial treatment OF DIFFERENT CATEGORIES OF PEOPLE OR THINGS -- RACE, AGE, SEX, GROUP, CLASS
All the "necessary people" behind the "scenes" in the courtroom are as unprofessional as you can get.
This includes disrespect, callousness, vicious contempt & most of all the blatant rudeness overflowing out of their mouths.
These "professionals" are the most degrading bunch of people anywhere and the worst part is... it's acceptable, in a government setting.
It's actually expected, to treat ALL the "common" population like dirt.
In a courtroom, if you're on the "wrong" side of the room, you are degraded.
This special attention is not JUST for the "whites", "blacks", "asians", "mexicans" and/or "low income/economic/social level".
This inappropriate demeaning is for EVERYONE not in their clique.
All the puppets at the bench and beyond (policemen, attorneys, judges, bailiffs, etc), see ALL OF US as a criminal, as a number and money in their pocket. They NEVER consider the person they are condemning and ridiculing.
And... there are no consequences for their bad behavior.
It doesn't matter if you're a criminal or not, you will be judged as such.
And, as far as their indignant attitudes, there is no such thing as "innocent until proven guilty", even if you are a plaintiff!!
Because of their schooling and job titles and because of their bad ethical habits throughout their "important" careers, these "exceptional" caliber of people, use their own kind of DISCRIMINATION against everyone BELOW them.
Even the courthouse personnel & security have their own rudeness & yelling to be ashamed of. Talking to the public like they're stupid and don't know what words are.
There is no need for instructions to be given in such unacceptable, shrieking and abusive manners.
This happens everywhere in our judicial systems, starting with the 5-0.
This is discrimination ....... NOT racism.
Disclaimer: There are definitely those "professionals" that are wildly NOTHING like the above mentioned. They care enough to fight for what is right and want to do what is right without disrespecting people with their immature attitude, on their climb up the ladder of success. However, this is not the norm. Most of the above mentioned parasites, live in a fantasy land where manipulation is a way of life. They climb the ladder of success by preying on peoples' lives, who are dependent upon them.
**CAUTION** FOUL LANGUAGE BELOW!!
and if you get hurt easily and have low self-esteem ..... I DON'T CARE!!
Women are 100% WAY more likely to be a whiny bitch to get what they want and make others feel guilty and uncomfortable in the process..... than any man on ANY OTHER PLANET.....
If things don't go a female's way, out comes her snappish attitude, including belittling the person that HAPPENS to be on her path, or the people not giving her what she wants.
Does it make them feel in control of their horrible low-self-esteem world to boss around people who can't fight back? Because 9 times out of 10, she knows the customer is ALWAYS right and will continue to be a bitch till she gets her way.
Getting their way, or the process of trying to get their way, even if they are completely and blatantly wrong, seems to make them feel better about themselves. When, in essence, they do the opposite, once the horrible scene they created is over. Many whiny bitches may feel let down, guilty and sad because in the middle of their tirade they discovered they were wrong and didn't back down on purpose, for fear of LOOKING inferior - which is in fact, what they did to themselves in the first place. HA!!! So, are they mad at themselves for being a dick and taking it out on someone else?.... such a conundrum these whiny bitches find their poor confused selves in.
These poor people who get harassed, by hateful, whiny bitches, have jobs and are EMPLOYEES. They don't get paid enough to go through whiny, bullshyt. They usually don't have adequate authorization to give people their EVERY wish and desire because whiny bitches had rotten childhoods and they think they deserve every entitlement known to man. Employees are told what to do BY the owners. Owners will THEN kiss the whiny, bitches ass, whereas it becomes the fault of the employee! But whiny bitches won't harass the owners, they'll harass the "low on the totem pole" employees and make it look like it's the employee's attitude and not theirs, just so the bitch ass whiny bitch can get what she wants.......
To get your way, I feel acting the opposite, all nice and sugary, is complete bullshyt too. But being a whiny bitch shows your true self, your immaturity and the level of spoilage you've acquired during your rotten life-time.
When you're wrong, admit it --- everyone is imperfect and I've found that if you show some honest vulnerability, people will have a better chance of dealing with you without being afraid of you. Making your victims feel bad, agitated, guilty and AFRAID is uncalled for... especially when all you want is something free, an earlier appointment or because you f*cked up!!
A while ago, on twitter, I went on a tiny bitch rant about people not having pictures..... including themselves and the things they do, etc., and why I won't spend a lot of time on those people.
I understand, some of you don't want to put yourselves out there in "social network land", but don't expect much, FROM ME.
I have trust issues, I'm proud of it!!! I think everyone is fake.... unless PROVEN otherwise.
In my book, pictures of dogs, flowers and their constant "FOOD PORN" don't cut it. I protect myself THAT way. Yes, people can put fake families up, but you NEED common sense along with your major "stalking" skills. (Remember, stalker is WAY better than creeper). You need to investigate people to an extent.
Remember though, it's only social networking, so in a way... I DON'T CARE IF YOU ARE FAKE, as long as you're cool, low key, funny and don't waste my time too much.
So, on to a certain "WICKED WITCH" CATFISH situation.....
People should be ashamed of themselves for not thinking BY themselves.... You have YOUR OWN brain.
You get a message from ANYONE saying something bad about someone else and you believe it without trusting yourself enough or your own instincts? (This also goes for bf/gf break-ups!!). You get told to "unfollow", "de-friend" or "block" another person and you do it?
WEAK MINDED comes to my mind!!!
You don't trust yourself enough that you can't say "NO" to a supposedly influential, scary, evil person???
Are you so afraid of what they may do to you??? You assume they're popular so you go along with them to be popular too??? You take "sides" and go along with the crowd that bullies and says evil, awful things about and to other people???
Even the people who think they're awesome are a pile of shyt for believing f*cked up shyt.
Pure and simple weakness.
This kind of douchebaggery shows me the weakness in people. I have NO RESPECT for people showing their own stupidity so easily.
You'd rather believe shyt than to sit, think and use your own mind, opinions, beliefs and thoughts... you are weak.
You need to grow up and listen to your instincts -- use the wisdom that life gives you.
And guys...... thinking us women start up this drama???? You're falling for this shyt as much as the "catfish friends". Falling for a pretty face, wanting some tit and twat shots??? Come on!
These "catfish" people don't go away either. They just start up as a different personality and get some more people in on their bullying games. Live and learn and don't get so involved with people unless you do some homework or KNOW they're real!
... get to know your peeps & stick with your peeps ...
Let others in your personal space, at a slow pace.
One facial picture and 50 dog pictures do not make a real person, according to me.
I don't trust anyone, so yes, I'm gonna stalk you if I'm gonna even spend 5 minutes talking to you. If you're not up to par with me, that includes talking shyt ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE, I will not waste more than a couple minutes with you. I just can't! My time, my sanity, my drama-free life, is worth MUCH MORE THAN SPEAKING TO A FAKE PERSON, or someone I THINK is fake!!!
In this particular situation, I was quiet, along with hundreds of other people, just watching and waiting for an inevitable, huge bomb to go off!! What a great experiment. I hope y'all use it that way!!
If you're sharing information with a person, you better do your homework or do some "SKYPE" work!!
AND BE NICE TO PEOPLE
What is this strange epidemic when people of a CERTAIN generation don't have "drive".
They have an adrenaline based excitement for playing games.
They can waste their education, their youth and their future on things that achieve NO accomplishments in life, yet still be defensive about how their "hobby" enhances their life value.
This "drive" for non-quality hobbies, however, runs over into other generations, sometimes turning into an addiction, keeping people away from things that matter most.
As time goes by, if not controlled, these attractions will stunt emotional growth, ruin lives and hurt missed opportunities.
ANYTHING in excess, is dangerous, especially if it disables you completely.
But "gamers" will continue to nourish their time spent, exercising their fingers, to the death.
This wasted time ... can turn into a poison that destroys your soul.
Police Rant #1
Many of you know, I have a problem with disRESPECT and the BEST/WORST display of all, are callous, cold-blooded police officers.
I feel their bad behavior starts as a constant demanding of respect even though they display a horrible grandstanding of NO respect themselves.
PLEASE NOTE --- I am NOT putting all cops into this heartless basket, but definitely most!!
Policemen, with one false word from their lips, destroy lives.
In order to make themselves look positive among their peers and their superiors they will be sure criminals and non-criminals alike are beaten down, emotionally and/or physically .... they falsify items, lie, or control & manipulate, in order to make themselves look better within their little enforcement club.
To have ALL bow down to them, emotionally and physically is adrenaline for most of them.
For some of them, their home lives are completely different from their "control issue" careers. They might be the nicest, passive men in social situations, but step into their uniform and EVERYONE must bow down.
I'm not saying they don't come by it naturally, because when you constantly live in a life/death situation within your JOB scope, your habits are difficult to change.
However, there is a difference between criminals and normal everyday people.
After years on the force, hardened police officers often forget how to distinguish between the two.
Every police officer should have continuing education classes on respect, consideration, dignity for life, honor and self-esteem for oneself, which should include, but not be limited to, respecting the good normal people who pay their salaries through taxes.
I don't care WHO YOU ARE, Respect should NEVER be given to people who don't deserve it.
~RNR~ The Daily Bitch