Relationships & Kids ~ 7/16/12

This is MY take on dicks & bitches who involve their kids too early in a relationship with YOUR significant "flavor" of the month.
You are a complete tool - man or woman - if you constantly introduce your kids to your unstable relationships!
What goes around comes around - You're teaching your kids your disgusting prostitute habits.
Don't be surprised WHEN, not if, your kids turn out just like you -- unable to have reliable, happy, well-balanced, enduring relationships.
Oh, you think you're not hurting your kids emotions???
...... SELFISH MUCH...... ???
You know what a whiny, bitch-ass punk you become when YOUR merry-go-round relationships don't work out for you and how fucked up you get --- now imagine a child with emotions more immature than yours!
Promiscuous & unhealthy relationship traits begin with you as a parent and seeing you give your "friends" in-n-out privileges through your bedroom door, gives your child the right to think it's normal.
It's NOT normal, you pig!!
Have some restraint and patience.  Believe in yourself enough to wait and see if things will work out.  Have respect for yourself and tell your "flavor of the month", the reason for not meeting your kid(s). If they don't like it, then you know what they wanted to begin with.
Your kids emotional well-being is so much more important than their impatience --- OR YOURS!!
You want to be promiscuous & co-dependent --- do it without your kid knowing --- for at least 4 months.
Don't fool yourself, Cinderella - after the 4 months of a new affair - it is NOT a storybook romance.  During that early period, everything IS wonderful, happy and beautiful.  But if you can't wait until after that happy time is over to involve your child's immature, loving emotions, you're are THE ultimate douchebag/douchebagette.
And it shows the world what a tramp/man whore you are and what you actually think about your kids' well-being.
You had kids for a reason.... to show them REAL love, teach them right from wrong and give them a great start in life, so they become a wonderful person -- WITHOUT YOUR SHIT BLOCKING THEIR PATH.
Do yourself a loving favor.... spend YOUR quality time with YOUR kids.  Not a loser you're only with for a 5-minute roller coaster ride during your child's itty bitty life.
Your co-dependency needs to take a back seat to your child's precious, young soul.

P.S......... These are my opinions, don't get all butt-hurt & defensive.... I'm discussing merry-go-round relationships... not long-term happy, rational relationships!!

As a side note.... FOR MOST OF YOU ... a RELATIONSHIP = 3 month hook-up, so let's all call it that.
A NORMAL RELATIONSHIP is actually a dependence, alliance, kinship - which 3 months does not make!
After your storybook romance of 3 months... the arguing, fighting and jealousy does not = a relationship!!
After a while, people laugh at you behind your back.... so quit your "I'm so in love" talk.